Hi Jesse,
Congrats on your new found love

I'd have to agree that the first thing to do is to find a job followed by an apartment to stay. I'd suggest you start looking for a job asap. If you can't get a transfer from your company, search and post your resume online at
www.monster.com.sg or
www.jobstreet.com.sg Accommodation-wise, it may be difficult to bunk in with your gal because chances are, she's living with her family (which is the norm btw). And unless u've got a friend to bunki in with, a short term lease is probably your only other option. Having said that, some lessors are reluctant to rent for anything shorter than a year (well, I hope I'm wrong on this), which brings me to my first point of finding a job asap preferably even before you leave US.
Good luck!
