There are a few gatherings groups on the site and the group as a whole meets up occasionally (I have only been once). What I did when I got here was join a rugby club and that creates a situation where there are a lot of people and you mingle to find who you like.
I also dragon boat which is a great sport for all people (not many women play rugby) and touch football.
I suggest you tell us your interests and someone will know of a club that suits you

P.S. I loved you in Charlies Angles and Kill Bill.