I quite understand! It's just for us it's operationally harder for us to achieve 'weekly' these days. So we're back to an earlier routine of going out for a better than the day-to-day meal perhaps every other weekend when we can fit into the other obligations. Then ideally monthly going out for something pretty special. I.e. we know it probably won't be cheap, but we hope and expect that we'll find it value. We have one favourite, and they constantly evolve their menu which helps, so that keeps it interesting. So that might be the venue for 1/3 months. Then the other two might or will be places new places we've short-listed to try. Picking the 2/3 is an interesting and curiously enjoyable process in itself
At that point, as with 1/3, the likely menu-cost of the other 2/3 becomes
somewhat secondary, it's more about the overall experience. I suppose a downside of that is that one is thus invested in a new place at least meeting your heightened expectations. Plus the experience is inevitably benchmarked vs your favourite-1/3. It's
really great when it all comes together though! Ideally perhaps we'd have 2 'regulars', and seek a new 'special find' every quarter, but a 2nd keeper has yet to present itself.
It could be more challenging, on our last posting our favourite restaurant in the city just happened to be a 50M stumble from our front door. And it was exceptional. That made it much harder to go and risk untested places

So when we had a special event, or friends in town, it became very easy to um and err in trying to choose a place, and then conclude 'Maybe it's just better if we go next door?'. We
never had a disappointing meal there.
I haven't eaten at any restaurants operated by the three mentioned chefs. To date all I've managed is watching their cooking shows, and having some of their books. I suppose Delia is reflective of the kind of fare I'd enjoy when I get to visit my parents. There is the ... er ... concept [?] of 'classical French cookery' and techniques, well a lot of the techniques are incorporated into all Western cuisine (stocks being used as a foundation flavour, opposing flavour and texture 'points' creating interest within one recipe, and meal etc). So/therefore I doubt I'd eat at one of her places as I'd fear being disappointed. Jeez... I think I'm becoming my father

He has a pretty painful habit of when ever we're out for a special family meal, after all is done, and there has been a huge amount of huffing and puffing over whether the bill can possibly be right (lol), that he'll insert the killer line... '
You know X [my mum], you could have done that meal better for a fraction of the cost'. He doesn't cook, so has no idea what having a night away from the stove must be like for my poor mother! And at that point my mother and I might catch each others eye, tilt our heads, momentarily flare eyes and suppress a laugh.
Anyway, sorry, back to the subject...
I've been away from the UK for so long now that I've never got to try a Heston or Ramsey venue. I'd love to try a Heston place and for it to surpass expectations, and open new culinary chapters I've never experienced before. Ramsey might be the something of a safer feeling middle ground. I really
get his approach and techniques and have massive respect for him. Anyway, all in due course! [Reflective moment: The pleasure even just discussing good food brings me is suddenly very striking

].
I think my favourites are (no particular order):
- The place that's our '1/3' here.
- Peter Lugers Steakhouse, NYC.
http://peterluger.com/
- The place next door on our last posting [can't name the place... don't need to help the spooks join the dots].
- The lobster shack in Newport, Rhode Island (US), whose name I've forgotten!
Others longer ago, so I've no idea how they rate now...
- Du Rhone, Geneva
- Dorchester Grill, London
- Nanbantei, Tokyo
.... and others, that are now history, but remain fond memories...
Thanks for the other places you mention, some of them I've never heard of. 'Becasse'.... hmmm, I'll check that out...