I feel that at least in India, women who do not work have to live on their husband's terms. And quite often, husbands dont get them . They may not have purchasing or decision making power. Now this is yet another kind of unhappiness.
There is unhappiness in job but then there is unhappiness is having no career, accomplishment or money of your own. And women, particularly, PR/Citizens do not have to work 8 hrs a day to do something meaningful with their life.
I actually feel sorry for women who are made to believe that cooking and taking care of family all their life is all that they can and should do.
Wd40 wrote:I think the "both parents working" is more of bane than a boon. I think its a privilege to be a stay at home mom and get to spend more time with kids rather than work for an a$$hole and take all the $hit in office. If only one member of the family works in majority of the families then the whole economy adjusts such that salary for 1 person is sufficient to run the family. But now what we have in Singapore with both members working, is salaries have got depressed and now the economy has got adjusted, especially house prices, such that both members have to work to bring in enough income to sustain the increased cost of living.
Larry Summers made this excellent analogy which perfectly fits this scenario:http://fortune.com/2015/01/22/larry-sum ... -qe-davos/“It’s like standing up in an audience,” said Summers. “If you do it, you can see better. But if everyone does it at the same time, no one is better off.”
If the woman is career minded then its okay to work, but when I see the expression of faces in day to day life, I dont really see them as too much happy. Poor SG'reans trapped in their false sense of prosperity.