Shanghai is equally good, or even better, for the young unattached. Especially caucasian males. Job prospects for his field will be better in Shanghai, and his language skills will be much more useful.brian_singapore wrote:IMHO HK is better for the young and un-attached. Or for young couples. Much more vibrant and happening city. Singapore on the other hand it a much better place for a young family. Ten years ago, it probably would have been my first choice. Now Singapore is as I have a young family.
You mention the goal of continuing your Mandarin studies.... Singapore does have Mandarin as an official language, but most people speak Hokkien and everyone does business in English. I believe the universities here are also taught in English (as are the local school systems). I suspect you'll have more opportunity to speak Mandarin in Shanghai, somewhat less so in Hong Kong (but more then Singapore as they deal a lot with the mainland) and probably very little in Singapore. (But I may be corrected on this point by other forum members).
Other then a few short (<=4 days) touristy trips to Shanghai 7 or 8 years ago. I've had very little exposure to the City, so couldn't comment.
It's the same as Singapore. I should also ammend my comment above to say that if you're looking to get *attached*, Shanghai isn't the place. Only if you plan to stay single.brian_singapore wrote:about 2 months ago I attended a company workshop which included attendance from our (female) Shanghai representatives. When conversation turned to romance and marriage they complained about the lack of eligible bachelors available in Shanghai and filled the rest of us in on the 5 cs - the criteria against which any bachelor is measured.
Career
Condo
Car
Cash
Credit Cards
It definitely sounded like a good place to be as an eligible bachelor.
Interestingly, Singapore is not in the list. Considering Hong Kong is now SAR of China, it is grouped together.Wd40 wrote:It is directly linked with materialism in this part of the world. I will link to this article that I shared few days back:
http://qz.com/158282/china-may-actually ... the-world/
I would have heard similar things in any conversations back home. What I posted was a snippet of a wide ranging discussion on suitable mates and was concurred as criteria. All of the folks in the discussion were looking for companions with similar backgrounds to themselves, not a step up the economic ladder. Oddly, the nature of the workshop meant we had representatives from virtually every Asian countrythe lynx wrote:I've been meaning to ask this, all the discussions about 5Cs and the propensity of "certain" groups of girls to use these yardsticks to find men, is it really the Sino-Asian thing?
You will always have tongues wagging how the girls from China, Hong Kong, Singapore and (add an Eastern Asian country here) latch themselves on rich men the moment they smell their money from few miles away. And that they don't make good long-term girlfriends because it is perceived that they are only good to do things less than that? Don't people have gold diggers everywhere else?
Please enlighten me because it seems to be the most-talked-about stuff in the dating sphere in this part of the world.
I can see how a countries state of development significantly impacts the weight people give material wealth (and the need in a companion)....the lynx wrote:Interestingly, Singapore is not in the list. Considering Hong Kong is now SAR of China, it is grouped together.Wd40 wrote:It is directly linked with materialism in this part of the world. I will link to this article that I shared few days back:
http://qz.com/158282/china-may-actually ... the-world/
Yes... it's a pretty much Asian thing. Although everyone has criteria the pragmatic nature of the 5C criteria is pretty Asian.brian_singapore wrote:I would have heard similar things in any conversations back home. What I posted was a snippet of a wide ranging discussion on suitable mates and was concurred as criteria. All of the folks in the discussion were looking for companions with similar backgrounds to themselves, not a step up the economic ladder. Oddly, the nature of the workshop meant we had representatives from virtually every Asian countrythe lynx wrote:I've been meaning to ask this, all the discussions about 5Cs and the propensity of "certain" groups of girls to use these yardsticks to find men, is it really the Sino-Asian thing?
You will always have tongues wagging how the girls from China, Hong Kong, Singapore and (add an Eastern Asian country here) latch themselves on rich men the moment they smell their money from few miles away. And that they don't make good long-term girlfriends because it is perceived that they are only good to do things less than that? Don't people have gold diggers everywhere else?
Please enlighten me because it seems to be the most-talked-about stuff in the dating sphere in this part of the world.
Not saying it's not more prevalent here; I have no idea. Only that similar criteria is often bandied about back home. Except maybe the Credit Cards. Everyone has those back home.
Honestly it is just as bad in most places. Some girls will follow the 5Cs, others won't and will be "normal". IME I've seen a rather similar propensity for both in a lot of places.the lynx wrote:I've been meaning to ask this, all the discussions about 5Cs and the propensity of "certain" groups of girls to use these yardsticks to find men, is it really the Sino-Asian thing?
You will always have tongues wagging how the girls from China, Hong Kong, Singapore and (add an Eastern Asian country here) latch themselves on rich men the moment they smell their money from few miles away. And that they don't make good long-term girlfriends because it is perceived that they are only good to do things less than that? Don't people have gold diggers everywhere else?
Please enlighten me because it seems to be the most-talked-about stuff in the dating sphere in this part of the world.
I think Shanghai is an okay city, but there are two things I can't withstand: The size of the city and the farmers. In addition, there are not so many parks, there's no ocean close by, no mountains, nothing. In HK, you are surrounded with nice vegetation and it's close to the ocean. The same it goes for Singapore. So that's a big drawback for Shanghai in my opinion.zzm9980 wrote:Shanghai is equally good, or even better, for the young unattached. Especially caucasian males. Job prospects for his field will be better in Shanghai, and his language skills will be much more useful.brian_singapore wrote:IMHO HK is better for the young and un-attached. Or for young couples. Much more vibrant and happening city. Singapore on the other hand it a much better place for a young family. Ten years ago, it probably would have been my first choice. Now Singapore is as I have a young family.
You mention the goal of continuing your Mandarin studies.... Singapore does have Mandarin as an official language, but most people speak Hokkien and everyone does business in English. I believe the universities here are also taught in English (as are the local school systems). I suspect you'll have more opportunity to speak Mandarin in Shanghai, somewhat less so in Hong Kong (but more then Singapore as they deal a lot with the mainland) and probably very little in Singapore. (But I may be corrected on this point by other forum members).
Other then a few short (<=4 days) touristy trips to Shanghai 7 or 8 years ago. I've had very little exposure to the City, so couldn't comment.
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