for argument sake, are you saying your dad is not the culprit here?yxgc wrote:Sorry in advance for the super long post., I just found out that my dad has a mistress (some china slut) and my mum knows but don't know how to deal with her. I know her name and hp number but Idk how to track her down, any help? I can't afford a PI and I am only 18, no license to follow my dad's car.
The situation is that my parent dk I know and I don't want them to find out I know. I got 2 younger siblings in secondary sch and they are scared (they know) and I want to protect them from getting hurt by this fiasco. Also I just got a scholarship to study overseas and I leave in 3 weeks. I want to try to at least resolve the situation before leaving. My dad keep denying (I found proof on his wechat secretly) and from their fights he seem to refuse to end it/admit. My mum is sad/angry and I think a little mentally shaken to deal with this so I want to find out who this woman is and talk to her. I know that my mum is trying to find out where she stays to stop this relationship but she is very unsuccessful. My mum is the "typical chinese aunty" with poor english, no computer skill, don't know how to use a smartphone. I can't stop my dad from communicating w her via wechat or he will get suspicious/angry. I'm hoping to find her asap before she damages our family or worse my mum somehow finds her.
I'm not immature or childish and wont pick a fight or whatever but I'm hoping to put an end to this relationship. Any help/ideas on tracking this slut down w phone number and her chinese name only? She accidentally shared her location once on wechat and it shows 488 Guillimard Road but Idk if she ives there or passing by and I know that most of the time my dad and her meet in a carpark..
That location is Geylang. Is it possible she is just a prostitute and it isn't a real relationship?yxgc wrote:Sorry in advance for the super long post., I just found out that my dad has a mistress (some china slut) and my mum knows but don't know how to deal with her. I know her name and hp number but Idk how to track her down, any help? I can't afford a PI and I am only 18, no license to follow my dad's car.
The situation is that my parent dk I know and I don't want them to find out I know. I got 2 younger siblings in secondary sch and they are scared (they know) and I want to protect them from getting hurt by this fiasco. Also I just got a scholarship to study overseas and I leave in 3 weeks. I want to try to at least resolve the situation before leaving. My dad keep denying (I found proof on his wechat secretly) and from their fights he seem to refuse to end it/admit. My mum is sad/angry and I think a little mentally shaken to deal with this so I want to find out who this woman is and talk to her. I know that my mum is trying to find out where she stays to stop this relationship but she is very unsuccessful. My mum is the "typical chinese aunty" with poor english, no computer skill, don't know how to use a smartphone. I can't stop my dad from communicating w her via wechat or he will get suspicious/angry. I'm hoping to find her asap before she damages our family or worse my mum somehow finds her.
I'm not immature or childish and wont pick a fight or whatever but I'm hoping to put an end to this relationship. Any help/ideas on tracking this slut down w phone number and her chinese name only? She accidentally shared her location once on wechat and it shows 488 Guillimard Road but Idk if she ives there or passing by and I know that most of the time my dad and her meet in a carpark..
You will find her, talk to her and she will break up with him and then what? Also, a womanizer? Do womanizers womanize for relationships?yxgc wrote:Sorry in advance for the super long post., I just found out that my dad has a mistress (some china slut) and my mum knows but don't know how to deal with her. I know her name and hp number but Idk how to track her down, any help? I can't afford a PI and I am only 18, no license to follow my dad's car.
The situation is that my parent dk I know and I don't want them to find out I know. I got 2 younger siblings in secondary sch and they are scared (they know) and I want to protect them from getting hurt by this fiasco. Also I just got a scholarship to study overseas and I leave in 3 weeks. I want to try to at least resolve the situation before leaving. My dad keep denying (I found proof on his wechat secretly) and from their fights he seem to refuse to end it/admit. My mum is sad/angry and I think a little mentally shaken to deal with this so I want to find out who this woman is and talk to her. I know that my mum is trying to find out where she stays to stop this relationship but she is very unsuccessful. My mum is the "typical chinese aunty" with poor english, no computer skill, don't know how to use a smartphone. I can't stop my dad from communicating w her via wechat or he will get suspicious/angry. I'm hoping to find her asap before she damages our family or worse my mum somehow finds her.
I'm not immature or childish and wont pick a fight or whatever but I'm hoping to put an end to this relationship. Any help/ideas on tracking this slut down w phone number and her chinese name only? She accidentally shared her location once on wechat and it shows 488 Guillimard Road but Idk if she ives there or passing by and I know that most of the time my dad and her meet in a carpark..
preciselyx9200 wrote:]
You will find her, talk to her and she will break up with him and then what? Also, a womanizer? Do womanizers womanize for relationships?
Ultimately the problem seems with your father (for a lack of any deeper insight) and the real damage is already done.
Now, you have to figure out for yourself what do you really want. Is it to pretend everything is ok till your siblings are out or to solve the problem.
take it from me, a friendly adviceyxgc wrote:Like I said previously, I'm not planning to scream or take it out on the woman, I just wanna talk. My main reason for doing this is that my siblings have o lvls and streaming year, Id want this to affect them. Also my mom will definitely scream and frag this shit out if she finds her before I do. She's definitely not a one time thing, I read thwir conversation on wrchat. I really don't give a hoot if he does this again but just for now till November, I want peace in the family. I'm trying to be responsible here by keeping my head cool and not confronting this women and slapping her or making it a big scene. I just want to track her down before my mom somehow does or before she go ape shit crazy.
I don't think there will be anybody on this forum willing to help you to find this woman. Your story does not really hold well and your motivations are not clear at all. If you don't care about what your father does, just lie to your siblings that your father finished with this "relationship" and problem solved. At least with the same quality solution as the one you claim you are after.yxgc wrote:Like I said previously, I'm not planning to scream or take it out on the woman, I just wanna talk. My main reason for doing this is that my siblings have o lvls and streaming year, Id want this to affect them. Also my mom will definitely scream and frag this shit out if she finds her before I do. She's definitely not a one time thing, I read thwir conversation on wrchat. I really don't give a hoot if he does this again but just for now till November, I want peace in the family. I'm trying to be responsible here by keeping my head cool and not confronting this women and slapping her or making it a big scene. I just want to track her down before my mom somehow does or before she go ape shit crazy.
and with that kind of reply from OP I can imagine how civilized or cordial her meeting with the 'other woman' will be ...x9200 wrote:You already received the best possible advice coming from 2 different forum users. It's not me, it's you.yxgc wrote:Teenagers are not as stupid as you seem to think. Its not your problem so you think its easy so if you don't want to help stop bringing ppl down
In all fairness she is young and this is *her* life and *her family* that she seems in total chaos. Not ours. I don't expect her to immediately say "oh wow, thats good advice thanks!"ecureilx wrote:and with that kind of reply from OP I can imagine how civilized or cordial her meeting with the 'other woman' will be ...x9200 wrote:You already received the best possible advice coming from 2 different forum users. It's not me, it's you.yxgc wrote:Teenagers are not as stupid as you seem to think. Its not your problem so you think its easy so if you don't want to help stop bringing ppl down
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