There are cultures where sadly you don't marry a person, rather you marry [into] their family.cpcpcp wrote:She and her mother's personality are very strong and dominating but my personality is soft/quiet, but I am really fed up with her family culture and I insist to divorce but they refuse, that's why they are so angry with me.
As I've suggested before, the best thing you can do is to empower yourself, at least then you'll be in a position to make rational informed decisions.
I don't know where you're from, or where you got married, but I'm not aware of any jurisdiction where a married person has a choice over whether their spouse divorces them. You can contest it, but I don't believe you can completely veto the process.
It's better not to rush to judgement, and the throwing of insults. Maybe she's found someone else, maybe she's been having an affair, maybe her family are trying to gouge him for his money, and so on. You can find plenty of discussions (on divorce fora) where the mother has done one of the above, or worse, neglects and shows no love or even interest in the child, but the father is tormented by a system stacked in favour of giving custody to her. Some of the discussions I used to have to follow (as a Mod) were just heart-wrenching.nanana wrote:sounds to me you have already found someone else. everything and anything else is just an excuse to get out of the marriage...
and you are so wrong about women to give up on care/control of their children in order to be remarried again. what century are you living in? that is totally an insult to a mother's love for the child.