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I kissed a maid and crapped in my nest

Postby S30 » Sun, 10 Dec 2017 5:06 pm

Hi , please help! My former Indonesian FDW destroying my life. Have you been in similar circumstances or know anyone who been?!!!.
I cant take this anymore!

She accused me for molesting her and I have done nothing wrong than I screwed up by having a relation with her ( we kissed several time) and no doubts she seduced me ( to detailed to write it here)..I was stupid and fell for it. Before that she asked about money, loan, go party etc etc. I said no always.. expect a couple of time where i helped her family back home with money. We started to have a relationship ( yes stupid me) shortly after things start to disappear such as money, gold, etc etc and she start wear new cloth, expensive gold.. proofs are there. In fact when the police came they found some minor stolen item in her room. She did a police report against me the day after i fired her on molesting and she run away. their is police report against her for theft.

As i am foreigner they took my passport and this is the worst time in my life with thousands of reasons i want this over and cant wait. I have lawyer, i have done my statement, we have sent in representation. Iam also prepared to compensate and even applied for it without any admit guilt. Iam prepared to do polygraph.. I want this nightmare over I have never been involved in a police case.

What can be done? Pls help. I can't take it any more. Police take their time but i dont have any time before it gets worst!

Any maid case u been involved in? How was it solved? Will procecuter agree to compaund the case when its a maid? So this can speed up? I dont care about money at this point or if she gets punshied or not. I just want this over now!
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Re: Help! My FDW destroying my life

Postby PNGMK » Sun, 10 Dec 2017 7:37 pm

Have some faith in the police. Cooperate with them. You're not the first idiot to shit where he eats.
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Re: Help! My FDW destroying my life

Postby PNGMK » Sun, 10 Dec 2017 7:38 pm

S30 wrote:Hi , please help! My former Indonesian FDW destroying my life. Have you been in similar circumstances or know anyone who been?!!!.
I cant take this anymore!

She accused me for molesting her and I have done nothing wrong than I screwed up by having a relation with her ( we kissed several time) and no doubts she seduced me ( to detailed to write it here)..I was stupid and fell for it. Before that she asked about money, loan, go party etc etc. I said no always.. expect a couple of time where i helped her family back home with money. We started to have a relationship ( yes stupid me) shortly after things start to disappear such as money, gold, etc etc and she start wear new cloth, expensive gold.. proofs are there. In fact when the police came they found some minor stolen item in her room. She did a police report against me the day after i fired her on molesting and she run away. their is police report against her for theft.

As i am foreigner they took my passport and this is the worst time in my life with thousands of reasons i want this over and cant wait. I have lawyer, i have done my statement, we have sent in representation. Iam also prepared to compensate and even applied for it without any admit guilt. Iam prepared to do polygraph.. I want this nightmare over I have never been involved in a police case.

What can be done? Pls help. I can't take it any more. Police take their time but i dont have any time before it gets worst!

Any maid case u been involved in? How was it solved? Will procecuter agree to compaund the case when its a maid? So this can speed up? I dont care about money at this point or if she gets punshied or not. I just want this over now!
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Don't shit where you eat.

Postby PNGMK » Sun, 10 Dec 2017 8:42 pm

OP wants post deleted.

No chance.
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