I'm sorry, I must have accidently posted this is the Ethics forum... thanks for your unsolicited view on topics unrelated. You've judged me wrong... how intent / expectation even entered the discussion is interesting.JR8 wrote:Do you think it might be better if you go somewhere that you're familiar and comfortable with? For example if you choose a place, even if it's perceived as 'flash', then maybe you choose it because you know and like it rather than you're setting out to impress?
Can you narrow down what the other party enjoys or might suggest? I could suggest places, but I think your both being at ease/comfortable there is clearly a primary goal. So if it's early days don't pitch over-high and risk alienating or intimidating the other side. Simply showing consideration as to the other party trumps trying to impress IMO, esp. when it's early days. Pitching the bar over-high at the outset can induce fear of an expectation that you're expecting reciprocation (i.e. in bed). Perhaps only more so if it's a place you're not familiar with.
Interesting choice of words ...Silverhawk24 wrote: We've learned about you, however... let's start the healing process... do you want to share with us why you wrote the novella above?
Lol! Going out on a 'date' does conjure up images of youthful fumbling as to how to pitch it.Silverhawk24 wrote: I'm sorry, I must have accidently posted this is the Ethics forum... thanks for your unsolicited view on topics unrelated. You've judged me wrong... how intent / expectation even entered the discussion is interesting.
We've learned about you, however... let's start the healing process... do you want to share with us why you wrote the novella above?
Google doesn't make suppositions, then pose saccharin ethical questions. I will consult there. Thanks
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Hehehe - Oh I know, 'I've learned about you'sundaymorningstaple wrote:Just havin' a poke. You seem to be bored at your new locale. Spending more time browsing are you?
It's a nice play of the words (BTW) but I always wondered what makes people to seriously respond to such posts. Wasn't it clear that you had like 70% chance to end up with the response of the OP like that?JR8 wrote:Hehehe - Oh I know, 'I've learned about you'sundaymorningstaple wrote:Just havin' a poke. You seem to be bored at your new locale. Spending more time browsing are you?
It's a hardship posting, dangerous at times to go out[..]
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