macaroonie wrote:So for all those married multiple times why get married again? What gave you that extra leap of faith?
Hardly 'mulitple'... but
What do they say of 2nd marriages, 'the triumph of hope over reality'. Or something like that hehe ...
Either you learn, grow and try again. Or you face the rest of your life alone.
I think you just learn to do things differently. You don't stick 100% of your cards on the table. Or volunteer ('for love') to put all
your assets into joint names. That's a change. Not throwing all and any barriers/defences out the church window. But rather, defining which aspects (and assets) will be shared and enjoyed. It might sounds cold/calculating, but beyond teenage blind-faith, I actually think it makes things simpler.
Same same how having a pre-nup might sound as romantic as a dead fish. Until you're getting married for the 2nd time...