Hannieroo wrote:There is not a job on this earth that gives the employer the right to impose his own moral values on an employee. A woman's reproduction system is her own.
I don't impose rules on my helper in her own time. She knows the laws, it's not for me to police other people's sex lives.
Hannieroo you haven't been here long enough. I used to think just like you then I got burned. If you have a good helper - absolutely. But a lot of the maids here don't think like you.
The worst story I know of is the one who deliberately got preggers via the teenage (read 13 years old) son. And then there were my other friends whose maid more or less set up a brothel in their house while they were away. And there was my first one who had a string of "boyfriends" who started showing up at our house at all hours...
Lots of these girls, they just aren't so smart. There are some lovely ones, but they are few and far between and their numbers are decreasing as time goes on. A young, smart Philippina has a lot better options these days than becoming a maid in Singapore. Even if she goes the domestic helper route - she gets paid more and treated better in a lot of other places.