taxico wrote:you seem to want a lot of things. i'm not sure if it's realistic to think that what you want will be possible.tan_andrei wrote:...But she start to less caring on son after since she had affair with that guy. No longer teaching him and always spend her time on texting or updating her weibo till midnight. As I no longer allowed to sleep with my son, and he will not sleep till mummy sleep together.
My current concern is I am pretty sure divorce will definitely hurt my son deep but I can’t let my wife continue in this manner.
a. Divorce while owning my kid’s custody as well as my house ownership.
b. Purchase date of my house is 01-Oct-2007 which doesn’t meet the MOP of 5years per below HDB regulation till Oct-12
c. Since I learned to know my wife adultery in Apr’12, so will it be too late to file divorce after Oct’12 in order to meet the MOP? Or is there any success case that keeps the house ownership although MOP not met in past due to similar circumstances?
having seen many people around me get divorced, the best ones always work out through a lot of compromise. and a good lawyer.
a divorce isn't as fast/quick as you think. october 2012 will come soon and the flat would have met the 5 year period. good luck retaining it!
oh yeah, like mad said: get a good private detective too.
As my kid only 5 years old and I am quite sure nobody can take care of him better than biological mother. But I really can't tolerate on my wife's behaviour especially brought back the guy slept at the house which I am paying. The most outrageous is the fellow came at once when my son at home. And my son told me that "Mummy hold the Uncle XXX's hand to the master bedroom". Which I am pretty sure kid's statement will not admissible in courts.
So I just think of getting what I am deserved. But definitely it depend on what judge thought if really become court case. Meanwhile, I still hope that my wife will give up the child's custody without going to court case if she know I have evidence (provided I able to get). As I really don't want my son to know what his mum did, this might be a humiliation to him and I can't imagine the impact to his grown.