Ok.. Can I know wht make u think so?? Have u ever caught him having another affair?? if he is ever caught having an affair - than he got to work very hard to gain your trust.. try speaking to him..Anonymous wrote:I've been in a relationship for almost 10 years now but I still sense distrust in my partner...ie: always feeling insecure, and whether is he two-timing me, .how can I get married like this?
well well well.. i agreed with you..marriage is just to tie a knot.. my case is almost the same as yours cant tolerate my hubby being as unreasonable.. wht can we do if we had try and failed.. it doesnt work out at all no matter no many chances you give..Anonymous wrote:i dont believe in fairy tale. I always think that marriage is just to tie the knot with someone you can 'acommodate' for life, this someone is there just to partner you till either one of you die.
I dont believe in loving someone for 20 or more years unless it is of parental love. I believe in getting used to someone being around but not loving for life.
Well, if you think your partner is bearable even if he cheat you in the future, then there is nothing more you have to worry. Unless you are talking about 'pure love' (where to find) for life, then you have to really considere.
Couple remain married for ages, I think the reason is that they are too used to each other rather then loving each other 'very' much. Who know, perhaps one of them have overcome partner dishonesty or one of them have committed affair before.
I have a friend whose parents have not spoken with each other for 25 years and still remain married. I think the answer to this is that:
1. married cost a bomb, divorce will cost more,
2. just wanted to have a simple life, and
3. use to each other.
Perhaps am not qualified to comments. But am a divorcee. Nothing to do with third parties etc. Just that I cant tolerate a non-working hubby.
My point of view is to married someone you can tolerate for life otherwise remain single.
Sorry for being so negative, but this is what I see in reality. No only my case, but for cases happened around me.
I think you had better wise up, you are either suffering from, some sort of infatuation, which is not at all healthy, or you may be suffering from childhood traumatic experiences, you are doomed from the beginning in a relationship.Anonymous wrote:I've been in a relationship for almost 10 years now but I still sense distrust in my partner...ie: always feeling insecure, and whether is he two-timing me, .how can I get married like this?
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