JR8 wrote:sharpz wrote: But I still provide because it is my duty as a son. I'm a social contract believer myself.
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Well if you are able to raise 10-15 kids with appropriately and zero negligence, I'm pretty sure you can expect warm fuzzy retirement and houseful of grandchildren attending your funeral.
But that's not quite the gist of the asian's traditional culture though. Parents raised their kids without expecting any return and kids payback despite they know parents don't want anything from them. Risk and reward doesn't really applies here. I still recall the moment my parents told me they're can RIP during my graduation lol..
Well, I do admit it's a dying tradition but I would gladly embrace its beauty and keep it alive.
You write 'Duty', 'social contract', and 'payback', but then you say 'Parents raised their kids without expecting any return'.
Something isn't adding up here!
p.s. when did this 'contract' get signed, in the womb?
"Social Contract Theory, nearly as old as philosophy itself, is the view that persons’ moral and/or political obligations are dependent upon a contract or agreement between them to form society." - Taken from
http://www.iep.utm.edu/soc-cont/
My interpretation - unwritten contract/obligation that go beyond the written contract (i.e. law) that an individually is takes up voluntarily.
Simple example, common understanding is that parents is liable to take care of the basic needs of their kids till the kids can reasonably take care of their own, any negligence by the parents leading to the death of a kid would most probably see themselves prosecuted in court, right? So all parents just need to do give minimal basic care and make sure the kids don't die. But in reality parents opt to give their kids best food, best education etc etc. I'm not saying it's right to spoil kids but point here is parents went beyond what's required by the written contract, which is essentially fulfilling the social contract with their kid.
Vice versa, kid's unwritten
Duty is to take care of their parents although it's not required by law, which includes
Paying back their part of the social contract not only on materially but also emotionally. You might not expect your kids to take care of you when you're in your nappies, but it is always nice if your kids come around every weekend with grandkids.
I really love this concept and choose to believe that world is a better place if everyone fulfil their own social contract. It's a naive dream, but at least i live my life my way
p.s. you can't sign social contract cuz it wasn't written at the first place. it's just a moral obligation an idiot (i get this alot from people around me) believes he owed to the stakeholders around him.