ksl --> I understand this is the worry everyone besides me have despite my re-assurance to them, that is why i wish to bring her in for everyone besides me to be convinced.
This is also our own choice, as long as we dun regret it, it will all be fine. Thanks for your advices from a neutral point of stand!
Like you said, it will be surprising if Singapore allow Chinese nationals to come in w/o hefty bond/scholarship, my entree visa(e-save) application for her few days ago was not successful and i have submitted my appeal. And i can only hope for the best