hi,sundaymorningstaple wrote:If you are already doubting him and you are only going together, I'd say ditch him. Find another because your suspicions will end up ruining the relationship anyway eventually when he gets fed up with defending himself from either spoken or unspoken accusations.
Then stop doing things 'behind his back'. Suspicions are real whether you act them out in front of him or not. I think you've sunk this ship already ~ as he has every reason to be suspicious of you.shiranaihito wrote:I myself know that suspicions will end up ruining the relationship anyway, hence right now Im doing all those checkings behind his back.
road.not.taken wrote:Then stop doing things 'behind his back'. Suspicions are real whether you act them out in front of him or not. I think you've sunk this ship already ~ as he has every reason to be suspicious of you.shiranaihito wrote:I myself know that suspicions will end up ruining the relationship anyway, hence right now Im doing all those checkings behind his back.
therat wrote:If he register his marriage @ singapore registry of marriage.
You can pay a fee and run the checking
https://app.rom.gov.sg/internet/emrs/rom_emrs_start.asp
But no one like the other party do things behind his/her back
Who cares who was first? Are you 7 years old? Act like an adult and end the relationship. If you don't trust him, it's over.shiranaihito wrote:Who's the one first?!! Me too dont like the other to do things behind my back too!!! I am now resorting to such is due to him! I cant believe that I will resort to such too but I have to do those checkings in order to protect myself/get a clearer picture!!
I dont know why Im so naive to trust him.. only realised something when I accidentally found out on jan 7, 2010
help.... I dont know how to have confidence on things ahead of me ... im scared
initially, everyone's a toddler.. everyone is still growing/learning.. Well, am in irrational state.. Really.... one will be so rational .. know should or not??.. must or musnt??..road.not.taken wrote:Who cares who was first? Are you 7 years old? Act like an adult and end the relationship. If you don't trust him, it's over.shiranaihito wrote:Who's the one first?!! Me too dont like the other to do things behind my back too!!! I am now resorting to such is due to him! I cant believe that I will resort to such too but I have to do those checkings in order to protect myself/get a clearer picture!!
I dont know why Im so naive to trust him.. only realised something when I accidentally found out on jan 7, 2010
help.... I dont know how to have confidence on things ahead of me ... im scared
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