remind me of my ex..when i was 20yrs old..well he was my BF..telling me"the most important thing to me in looking for a woman is if she can take care of me and clean up if im sick"..then i said "Clean up? you look for a couple or a maid?"SGBoyxxx wrote:
I didn;t mean I am going to find a girl..like maid?
vbelle wrote:remind me of my ex..when i was 20yrs old..well he was my BF..telling me"the most important thing to me in looking for a woman is if she can take care of me and clean up if im sick"..then i said "Clean up? you look for a couple or a maid?"SGBoyxxx wrote:
I didn;t mean I am going to find a girl..like maid?
my bad for not getting the romanticism in it...;p
im not taking any offend SGBoy..im not local..and im not a good housecleaner..nor cook...that should be admitted;p
So its okay that you as a local "guy" are not independant but the same thing in a local "girl" is unacceptable is it? By the same logic you too are incapable of looking after yourself! Talk of double standards!SGBoyxxx wrote:vbelle wrote:remind me of my ex..when i was 20yrs old..well he was my BF..telling me"the most important thing to me in looking for a woman is if she can take care of me and clean up if im sick"..then i said "Clean up? you look for a couple or a maid?"SGBoyxxx wrote:
I didn;t mean I am going to find a girl..like maid?
my bad for not getting the romanticism in it...;p
im not taking any offend SGBoy..im not local..and im not a good housecleaner..nor cook...that should be admitted;p
ok I am have to admit I am also don;t know how to do houseworks.
cook ...ect
all is done by my parents.
I just admire those non local girls , they seem able to look after themself.
intellectualsmuse wrote:So its okay that you as a local "guy" are not independant but the same thing in a local "girl" is unacceptable is it? By the same logic you too are incapable of looking after yourself! Talk of double standards!SGBoyxxx wrote:vbelle wrote: remind me of my ex..when i was 20yrs old..well he was my BF..telling me"the most important thing to me in looking for a woman is if she can take care of me and clean up if im sick"..then i said "Clean up? you look for a couple or a maid?"
my bad for not getting the romanticism in it...;p
im not taking any offend SGBoy..im not local..and im not a good housecleaner..nor cook...that should be admitted;p
ok I am have to admit I am also don;t know how to do houseworks.
cook ...ect
all is done by my parents.
I just admire those non local girls , they seem able to look after themself.
SGBoyxxx wrote:intellectualsmuse wrote:So its okay that you as a local "guy" are not independant but the same thing in a local "girl" is unacceptable is it? By the same logic you too are incapable of looking after yourself! Talk of double standards!SGBoyxxx wrote:
ok I am have to admit I am also don;t know how to do houseworks.
cook ...ect
all is done by my parents.
I just admire those non local girls , they seem able to look after themself.
lol...in the first place I hope everyone don;t take it too seriously .
I am easy going ...
Well if you seldom travel and have not lived much in other countries how do you know if Western girls are more independent than Asian girls? As already mentioned, in Western cultures youngsters usually move out and are independent in their late teens but in Asia they usually stay with their parents till marriage. So I would say that independence is due to nurture and not nature.SGBoyxxx wrote: personally I feel europeans girls , be if from america , UK , aust
russia ...ect are more independent than asian girls.
gee I am asian guy here.
I cannot stand it asian girls cannot be independent.
can;t cook , can;t do simple DIY housework stuffs. ect
and physcially unfit .
whereas I am noticed european girls more independent.
take care of kids well .
cook well too.
physcially fit.
well maybe I am stay in singapore seldom travel and stay in another countries much maybe is unfair I comment like this.
lol....
friend, your comments ARE unfair. most girls in my homecountry (southeast asian) are trained to cook, do laundry, iron clothes, take care of younger siblings, sew clothes, help parents go to the market, and all other domestic work as early as primary school.SGBoyxxx wrote: personally I feel europeans girls , be if from america , UK , aust
russia ...ect are more independent than asian girls.
gee I am asian guy here.
I cannot stand it asian girls cannot be independent.
can;t cook , can;t do simple DIY housework stuffs. ect
and physcially unfit .
whereas I am noticed european girls more independent.
take care of kids well .
cook well too.
physcially fit.
well maybe I am stay in singapore seldom travel and stay in another countries much maybe is unfair I comment like this.
lol....
Again, as SMS pointed out, this was generalization and perhaps bad phrasing of some words. Nothing more. At least myself took it too this way. Nothing to do with your ability to learn.phantasmagoria wrote:It's not fair to say that "Asian girls cannot be independent". Perhaps you really need to get out more.
SGBoyxxx wrote: personally I feel europeans girls , be if from america , UK , aust
russia ...ect are more independent than asian girls.
gee I am asian guy here.
I cannot stand it asian girls cannot be independent.
can;t cook , can;t do simple DIY housework stuffs. ect
and physcially unfit .
whereas I am noticed european girls more independent.
take care of kids well .
cook well too.
physcially fit.
well maybe I am stay in singapore seldom travel and stay in another countries much maybe is unfair I comment like this.
lol....
well.. those didn't say doesn't mean that their women at home cannot do house work too...sundaymorningstaple wrote:And how many didn't say so? Of course they are going to keep their mouth shut as they don't want to look the fool for marrying a women who cannot keep a house. Sorry, do not pass go, do not collect two hundred dollars. Want a "get out of jail free" card?
SGBoyxxx wrote:well true yup I am a good exampletaxico wrote:in certain western countries, it's the norm for kids to leave home after graduating high school.
that's a big motivating factor towards learning how to cook and clean - to be independent.
asian kids tend to stay with their parents for much longer and get mollycoddled, as do those in some (?) european countries (italy?).
as always, as mentioned above, there are exceptions; my wife can't cook to save her life although she's lived independently for some time.
she can clean very well though!
I stay with my parents.
and ya my parents do the housework where I at work .
ya I DO FEEL SHAME OF MYSELF can;t cook a proper meals
never boil water or cook rich before..
what you mention is true ..
"asian kids tend to stay with their parents for much longer and get mollycoddled"
I am agreed.
what I admire is yup as you mention...
"certain western countries, it's the norm for kids to leave home after graduating high school.
that's a big motivating factor towards learning how to cook and clean - to be independent.
"
this is what I respect and admire those westerns .
and thus dare to explore .
whereas asian more conservation .
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