Reread the OP, it's his SIBLINGS, ie. brothers/sisters. In fact it's said 3 times in the OP, or have they changed the meaning of siblings?ksl wrote:I can see the OP has a problem and a responsibility with his children and their disability.
It would be very very difficult in Singapore for him and his children, especially financially with no welfare available to help him out.
I noticed that from the beginning actually. Come to think about it, will they actually be able to bring the siblings in? I think only parents can get PR through their children but not siblings, isn't it? Maybe they could get an LTSVP though.Jeppo wrote:Reread the OP, it's his SIBLINGS, ie. brothers/sisters. In fact it's said 3 times in the OP, or have they changed the meaning of siblings?ksl wrote:I can see the OP has a problem and a responsibility with his children and their disability.
It would be very very difficult in Singapore for him and his children, especially financially with no welfare available to help him out.
I think they would do better by moving to the uk/france where there are socialistic governmentsjanuavi wrote:He: 31 yo. French Black living in London. Works as marketing executive in a marketing firm. Family lives in France and has a pair of siblings with disabilities. Earns £25 000 per annum
She: 28 yo. Singaporean Chinese living in Singapore. Works as IT consultant. Family in Singapore. Earns $60 000 per annum
They met whilst she was living in London and had been together for 2 years before she went back to Singapore in 2008 to do her entry clearance as a highly skilled migrant. They split up since then when he knew she couldn't get back to UK due to a 1 year ban by the british Immgrations (Blame her then-employer who screwed up her paperwork to remain. Long story). They tried dating other people during the period apart. She went back to London to see him recently as the ban was over finally. Girl really loves the boy and sees him as a life partner. Boy said, 'likewise, i will do my best for you but we have to be realistic and see what options we have as my situation is complicated because of my family'. Boy also loves the girl very much. They are taking these coming 6 months to consider all the options.
Problem: His parents are in their 60s, both siblings are incapable of taking care of themselves. He does not want to go back to France and does not want to stay in London too. Luckily both parents are relatively heathly now and he could do whatever he likes but the responsibility of taking care of his siblings will fall on his shoulders if his parents fall sick or pass on eventually. Ideally, both him and his partner will work and live in France but in fact, that is not the case. Girl is ready to share this responsibility with him and has made it very clear. She asked him to move to Singapore to try it out since he has no idea where he wants to be and what he wants to do although she doesn't mind making the sacrifices and doesn't mind where they live. He is willing to consider. Girl thinks that they might have a better quality of life in Singapore then if he remains in the UK or France.
Anyone has any good advice or experience that is similar? Anyone has any experience bringing disabled persons into Singapore or dealing with disabled persons in france? Would like to hear from you.
How much of a socialist is Sarkozy?barney11 wrote:I think they would do better by moving to the uk/france where there are socialistic governments
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