I still have difficulties adapting to just how loud and in your face some nationalities can be.ozchick wrote:Mm...good thread this one. Wish a few Aussie visitors who swear or speak unnecessarily loudly in public places here would try to imitate the generally unobtrusive Singaporean. Whenever I'm on public transport here, I don't get bombarded with loud conversations. Back home, on a train or bus we're all forced to listen to Mr or Miss Loudmouth who seems to want everyone to know their business. Gee I don't miss that.
I have seen this many times. I thought it was very strange too, but you can't call it a local custom for one group and not the other, right? This is the custom they have and this is how they do it. You thought it was embarrassing and disgraceful, but it was business as usual for them.Global Citizen wrote:Or how about the time an invitation was issued to us by an Asian friend where it was potluck this time. The guests were a mixed group of Asians and Westerners. At the end of the evening, the Western couple not only took back the remaining liquor left but also the remaining food they had brought! The polite and sensible thing would have been to let it remain unless invited by your hosts to bring it home. It was all so embarrassing and very disgraceful behaviour!
R.N.T. - The point here is that the couple is living in Singapore, hence the protocol would be to be respectful and aware of social etiquette practised in Singapore when invited to the home of a local. In my son's case, he brought his share of the meat as was advised.road.not.taken wrote:I have seen this many times. I thought it was very strange too, but you can't call it a local custom for one group and not the other, right? This is the custom they have and this is how they do it. You thought it was embarrassing and disgraceful, but it was business as usual for them.Global Citizen wrote:Or how about the time an invitation was issued to us by an Asian friend where it was potluck this time. The guests were a mixed group of Asians and Westerners. At the end of the evening, the Western couple not only took back the remaining liquor left but also the remaining food they had brought! The polite and sensible thing would have been to let it remain unless invited by your hosts to bring it home. It was all so embarrassing and very disgraceful behaviour!
I used to be feel the same way when I'd see local men (of course men!) actively, enthusiastically digging in their noses here in Singapore. It's gross to me, but not to them.
You should ride my bus to work in the morning, plenty of that sort, thank goodness for the music player.ozchick wrote:. Back home, on a train or bus we're all forced to listen to Mr or Miss Loudmouth who seems to want everyone to know their business. Gee I don't miss that.
Curious a good many of us don't wear shoes in our own homes to avoid soiling the carpet. Visitors with an ounce of decency will remove their shoes and those that can't can always carry overshoes. A friend of mine with expensive Persian rugs wont let anybody in unless they observes these 'formalities'.Global Citizen wrote: For instance, the removing of one's shoes before entering someone's home. Not too long ago, I recall reading an expat's post on a different board of how outraged he/she was at having to do that. WTF!?
However if you did the same in most homes in Australia the people would think you were a bit strange, and look at you rather oddly. All for the same reason, it is not common practise to take off your shoes when entering a home there. Obviously not one of the things we inherited from the Brits along the way.Plavt wrote:Curious a good many of us don't wear shoes in our own homes to avoid soiling the carpet. Visitors with an ounce of decency will remove their shoes and those that can't can always carry overshoes. A friend of mine with expensive Persian rugs wont let anybody in unless they observes these 'formalities'.Global Citizen wrote: For instance, the removing of one's shoes before entering someone's home. Not too long ago, I recall reading an expat's post on a different board of how outraged he/she was at having to do that. WTF!?
Sweaties by any chance?road.not.taken wrote:I have seen this many times. I thought it was very strange too, but you can't call it a local custom for one group and not the other, right? This is the custom they have and this is how they do it. You thought it was embarrassing and disgraceful, but it was business as usual for them.Global Citizen wrote:Or how about the time an invitation was issued to us by an Asian friend where it was potluck this time. The guests were a mixed group of Asians and Westerners. At the end of the evening, the Western couple not only took back the remaining liquor left but also the remaining food they had brought! The polite and sensible thing would have been to let it remain unless invited by your hosts to bring it home. It was all so embarrassing and very disgraceful behaviour!
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