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by ksl » Thu, 13 Mar 2008 5:42 am
Kevin your no use! You don't slap chicks around, only terrified, insecure, narcissistic individuals do that....they have no idea what love is, like you, you have no idea, at all what love is.....I'm not wrong in saying you probably think you are the worlds best lover, when in fact, you know nothing about love!
There is no point in changing yourself, because that is easier said than done, people that beat chicks, need professional help dude, it's a cry for help, panick, that you cannot cope with, afraid to be alone, and probably feel power, through, attempting to take control by fear. She did right in dropping you....and they all will, until you get some help.
To say you can change is utter bull shit, like my old mum used to say about the leopard, not changing its spots.
You need to stay well away from chicks, until you learn to realise, that love, isn't sticking your tool in a hole, and saying i love you! If you think that's the case, you should buy a rubber ducky!
It's going to take along time for you to change anything...there are lots of evil spirits walking this earth, just waiting to jump into people like you, vulnerable, the good and the bad inside you, fighting all the time.
Who is winning Kevin? Are you possessed, and you call it love, love comes from the heart mate, not the penis.
You need to do a good check on yourself, make a list of all, your disgusting bad deeds, and ask yourself, who can actually live with you!
Ask yourself why you have all these bad habits?
You need to have faith in yourself and god.....which god! Who cares which god, there is only one anyway...so just god, the creator of the universe, learn the 10 famous ethics in life, the commandments.
Condition yourself in these and you won't go far wrong, you don't have to be religous, to know what is right and what is wrong, but live by them.
I know many that are like you, so don't take it so personal, I have a son also, that needed to realise, what is love...because it is a tricky word, and very easy to misuse...You shouldn't allow others to try and change you, only you can do the changing, after that, you need to be considerate and understanding of others feelings, do the right thing, if you love them, and they want to go, let them go, love is unconditional...but only ego control can save you.
Control of the (I) Ego, is your way to go, you have the good and bad inside you, in constant battle, and you have to be strong to be positive, and true to your real identity.
Believe me, the world is full of these spirits, just looking for weak victims....Think about it, it isn't really you, that goes slapping chicks right, it's the bad side of you, who is winning the devil?
Think of love as being a rational feeling, not an irrational one!
To be irrational means you are probably disturbed, like 99.9% of the population, that call it love, the line is very thin...I guess that's why they call it crime of passion in France, because many are passionate, and lose their control..but it is Ego, and crikey, think of the stress levels one must be under all the time if they are feeling irrational behaviour.
It is also expected! 
Although lets see what Kevin says, after all it was meant for him.
