Actually, there's lots of stuff(!) going on, you just need some local friends to break you in.
Google "two queens singapore", "white party singapore", "fridae asia", "oogachaga Singapore". There are some Facebook groups as well. If you are Christian we have a church welcoming of LGBT individuals (in Geylang, of all places
). Buddhists generally could care less what your sexual orientation is.
If you're at your wits' end you can email me at
[email protected]. That however is where I direct most of my spam so 1) you might get a late reply 2) you might not get a reply at all if the mail is lost in the spam box.