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by cinder » Sun, 14 Mar 2010 11:25 pm
i joined some of the forum gathering regularly years back, and went to couple of them last year. i've found it pretty easy, even though i am no social butterfly either. you just show up, introduce yourself to the host, get your drink, start conversation with a person next to you or join any group conversation, and that's it. even if you are a shy person, surely somebody will talk to you or let you join the group conversation. if worry being awkward stopping you to join the group, worry not, as people generally are very friendly there.
however, stretching the topic bit further, i've found it very difficult to grow a friendship from the group. you meet large number of people with various interests, background and intentions, it's a slim chance you will grow a friendship on the first five or ten meet ups (some of the WNDCs are regulars for.. six years at least??).. added to that, people (including you) are in and out the group due to their own commitment, make it more difficult to grow the connection.
having said that, i've met three of my now girl friends through similar group to FNDC six years ago (WNDC has been established, but most of us were busy bees those days..) we had even a wedding from our meet ups. but that's it. after that group, it has been a struggle.
i might say the forum gathering is perfect for meeting people to do something together on that particular time. if you have time to commit, enrolling yourself to a group with commitment, such as dance class, wine tasting class, dragon boating team etc. may bring bigger chances to meet people with whom closer friendships can be grown.