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by Sergei82
Fri, 27 Feb 2015 8:15 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

Does anyone know which of the Hong Kong expat forums is most active at the moment? Need to ask them some questions which are hard to google out...
by Sergei82
Wed, 25 Feb 2015 5:30 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

I may disappoint you people. Since there is no way for me to find a local sponsor to extend my STVP (not going out to meet people for a year already), I'm forced to be out of Singapore from March 4 until March 9. After that I'm just finishing packing on tourist visa and out of Singapore shortly. To ...
by Sergei82
Tue, 17 Feb 2015 1:56 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

Btw, this PR in-principle approval which is valid for 2 months - does it grant some stay in Singapore on its own during those 2 months?
by Sergei82
Mon, 16 Feb 2015 10:38 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

X9200, that kind of knowledge does not prevent anything for sure, but it does help tremendously to recover psychologically and realize what was going on after the blow (hopefully, just a blow like mine, not years of wallowing in pain and suffer).
by Sergei82
Sun, 15 Feb 2015 1:35 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

JR8, is your private message Inbox 100% full at the moment?
by Sergei82
Sat, 14 Feb 2015 1:58 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

ecureilx , ROMM divorce rate is much higher than ROM divorce rate. Authorities do recognize this fact and never hide it. Moreover, it is stressed during pre-marriage Muslim courses as well. They do try to address it, but haven't found any effective remedy, nor the cause of it is not clear. Remedies...
by Sergei82
Sat, 14 Feb 2015 9:47 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

ecureilx , I had to go only once - pre-divorce counseling (arranged a separate session so not to see HER). Their primary concern was: will I give up Islam because of my wife? I answered them that my wife is not an indicator of anything in Islam (which is true!) and I don't make decisions like that ...
by Sergei82
Fri, 13 Feb 2015 1:58 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

I saw what she is from the very beginning, but because she was saying all the right words, I thought I can give her some hope of get out of that lifestyle and give what she dreamed about. Sooooo damn stupid of mine! Going against nature. :) And other thing - I didn't know all her background complete...
by Sergei82
Fri, 13 Feb 2015 12:40 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

I have this one at home:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Games_People_Play_(book)

Knowing the work of Eric Berne did not help me unfortunately. My own fault though...
by Sergei82
Fri, 13 Feb 2015 10:47 am
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

Unfortunately, I had something similar when I was living in Korea. Different details, in general both cases look alike. Both bitches are very pretty. Except this time I fell into marriage... Fortunately, the marriage was short, so nothing in my life depends on her. Neither my stay in Singapore, nor ...
by Sergei82
Thu, 12 Feb 2015 6:54 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

Yes, I know she is stupid and inadequate. Actually I'm not interested in her diagnosis (maybe curious, but only when I have free time going forward), me myself should've thought better before getting together with her. Unfortunately neither Allah (as I was advised) nor support groups will help me wi...
by Sergei82
Thu, 12 Feb 2015 6:14 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

JR8 wrote:...


Yes, JR8, you're extremely close to what happened to me. Was yours also Malay? (as far as I remember, you married several times)
by Sergei82
Thu, 12 Feb 2015 2:44 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

There definitely was some appearance catch in her. In any case, there are many pretty girls around, it was stupid to fall on one of them in case where other human qualities... well, she just "structured" her self-image very elaborately, all of it was just made up to look better. That's the...
by Sergei82
Thu, 12 Feb 2015 12:24 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

Divorce should not be an issue. I'll just have to come back to SG once or twice for court session a few months later. ROMM marriages are easier to terminate compared to ROM, no need to wait 3 years. The only thing is there may be more responsibility on husband - now she told me I have to pay at leas...
by Sergei82
Wed, 11 Feb 2015 9:36 pm
Forum: General Discussions
Topic: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???
Replies: 90
Views: 12160

Re: PR approved, but I don't need it anymore WTF!!!???

So the guy for the whole 5 years was out of Singapore still keeping his PR?

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